I just returned from my trip to Calgary. Spent the last 10 days at Lindsey's place. Despite all the traveling I've done in the past, this was one of my most memorable trips. When I think about it, we didn't do "tons" of stuff... lots of relaxing, food shopping (I think we went to Superstore like 5 times within a week?), and just general shenanigans.
I finally met the family, it was a pretty big deal. Lindsey is close with her family and holds them close to her heart. Before meeting them I'd have days of being anxious, nervous, worried, calm, comfortable etc. etc. I wanted to make sure they liked me, and in a way, "approved" of me dating their daughter. Long distance can be tough enough, I could just imagine how much more difficult it could be if the parents didn't have a good outlook on the boy!
But, all went well and we had a great time. Was even able to watch her brother play soccer twice... how I miss playing. My ankle better heal up quick.. I want to play!
As I said, I had an amazing time. Despite Calgary being just a short flight, it's quickly become one of my favorite cities to be in. The nights where I'd go out to the car to get it warmed up and be outside in the cool, crisp air while looking up at the clear night sky and seeing all the stars.. it's simply breathtaking. Not to mention driving along the highway and seeing the rocky mountains in the distance. A smooth, flat landscape and then a huge array of snow capped mountains... They always say that Vancouver is one of the most beautiful cities in the world.. let me tell you.. that sight right there took my breath away.
It's not always the destination that makes for a memorable experience... it's also the company that you're with.
Whether we're out drinking at a bar, eating a nice meal, or just laying on the couch watching tv.. I was enjoying every moment spent with her.
Long distance relationships aren't easy. Relationships aren't easy to begin with, throwing in distance just adds to the difficulty of things. Both Linds and I had our bouts with long distance relationships, and we both kind of had the mentality that we wouldn't put ourselves in that position again... except if it was with each other. We had the type of friendship where we grew up together, not in the sense that many would think.. I guess you could say we indirectly grew up together, either way, she has always been a major part of my life, and has always been my best friend.
We're both hard working individuals, determined, know what we want in life. I'll admit, she's much more of a hard worker than I am.. that girl busts her butt! What is 427 or so miles? If you think about it.. not much. We both do our best to see each other as much as possible, and will continue to do so. Time seems to fly by when we're together, and go at a snails pace when we're not.. figures! The good thing about being somewhat close to each other, is that it's not a huge issue to jump on a plane last minute and fly over for a weekend. We're both the type of individuals who don't give up, and will fight towards achieving what we want in life. Something which is definitely needed for long distance relationships.
There's something about Calgary.. There's something about her.. I can't put my finger on what it is.. but whatever it is .. it feels good.
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